The BEFRIEND Intensive

Life with the Spirit

Attachment, Not Striving

The Heart of the Discipleship House

Deepen Your Connection to the Spirit

If Believe established allegiance to King Jesus,
Befriend cultivates daily friendship with His Spirit.

This third intensive gathering slows us down.

The Befriend Intensive is an immersive gathering designed to move women from independence and performance into secure attachment, alignment, and everyday listening to the Spirit.

What Is the Befriend Event?

Befriend is structured around one story and three movements:

How It Works

• Movement I: The Spirit Promised (Head)

  From Genesis to the Prophets to Pentecost, we rediscover that the Spirit is not an add-on. He is God Himself — promised from the beginning… and found in the beginning.

• Movement II: The Spirit Who Stays (Heart)

  Through Romans 8 and the language of attachment, we learn that the Spirit’s presence is proof that God did not leave. Friendship with the Spirit heals shame, restores trust, and forms secure identity.

• Movement III: The Spirit in Everyday Life (Hands)

  The Spirit does not replace your life — He inhabits it.
  Prayer, gifts, time, stewardship, relationships — ordinary obedience becomes sacred.

  This is not hype.
  This is abiding.

Head | Heart | Hands Integration

• Head — Pneumatology (AKA Understanding Who the Spirit Is)

  Understanding who the Spirit is biblically and historically.

• Heart — Secure Attachment

  Learning to trust, abide, and receive grace that stays.

• Hands — Spirit-Formed Living

  Practicing how to follow the Spirit’s leading in everyday rhythms of time, treasure, temple, talents, and trust.

What Happens After the Befriend Intensive?

What You’ll Take Away:

• An 8-12 Week Study: The Spirit Who Stays

  Possible movement through the study:

  1. Spirit in Creation

  2. Spirit Promised (Prophets)

  3. Spirit Poured Out (Acts)

  4. Romans 8 and Secure Attachment

  5. Fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5)

  6. Gifts in the Community

  7. Temple, Treasure, Time

  8. Spirit-Led Obedience

• Extras

  The curriculum includes:

  • Leader guide for reproducibility

  • Personal homework

  • Behold Table discussion guides

  • Head–Heart–Hands integration

  • Clear Discipleship House mapping

What You’ll Take Away

• You will leave with:

  • A clearer understanding of the Holy Spirit

  • Language for secure spiritual attachment to the Spirit and others.

  • An 8–12 week formation curriculum

  • Practical rhythms for Spirit-led living

  • Confidence to disciple from empowerment, not exhaustion
    

  
  Hear from Meg: Founder of the Behold Collective

Are You Ready to Befriend the Spirit?

Join us for this one day journey and discover the Spirit’s power in your life.

FAQs

• Who is this event for?

  The Befriend Intensive is for women who want to move from striving to abiding.

  This is for you if:

  • You feel tired of trying to do spiritual life in your own strength.

  • You long for a deeper, steadier relationship with the Holy Spirit.

  • You are leading or discipling others and want sustainable formation.

  • You’ve completed Behold and Believe and are ready to cultivate attachment.

  You do not need to have everything figured out.
  You only need a willingness to slow down and stay.

• What should I expect?

  Expect a slower, spacious day.

  There will be:

  • Scripture-rich teaching

  • Guided reflection

  • Small group table conversations

  • Quiet moments for prayer and listening

  • Practical application for everyday Spirit-led living

  This is not high-energy hype.
  It is intentional formation.

• Where is the event being held?

  Exact location details and directions will be sent after registration.

• What is included?

  Your registration includes:

  • Half-day intensive experience

  • Printed materials and guided exercises

  • Access to the 8–12 week curriculum “The Spirit Who Stays”

  • Behold Table discussion guides

  • Ongoing pathway connection within the Behold community

• What should I bring?

  Please bring:

  • A Bible

  • A journal and pen

  • Water and any personal snacks

  • A posture of openness

  Dress comfortably. This is a reflective day.

• Are meals provided?

  Meals are not provided.
  We encourage you to bring your own lunch or plan to purchase food nearby during the designated break.

• Will there be time for personal reflection?

  Yes.

  Intentional space for silence, breath prayer, journaling, and personal processing is built into the day. Befriend is designed to create margin, not pressure.

• Can I attend if I've already gone to the Behold and Believe events?

  Can I Attend If I’ve Already Gone to Behold and Believe?

  Yes. In fact, Befriend builds directly on those foundations.

  Behold anchors identity.
  Believe establishes allegiance.
  Befriend cultivates daily attachment.

  Each year deepens the previous one.

• Can I invite a friend?

  Absolutely.

  If your friend has not attended Behold or Believe, she is still welcome. While the pathway builds sequentially, each intensive stands on its own as a formative experience.